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Sunday, 23 May 2010

Back Quacks

I have a terrible back. For years I've lived in fear of the onset of an 'episode' when one of my lower discs slips out of kilter with the rest of the spine. It goes in phases, sometimes I can go 2 or 3 years between episodes, other times they seem to happen every couple of months.

Having a bad back is fantastically incompatible with having children. Although they don't recommend bed rest any more(they like to keep you moving around), racing around after toddlers, picking up and carrying them on one hip and having to move unexpectedly are not conducive towards getting better. It probably isn't surprising that the number of episodes I've had has increased since becoming a mother.

And if having children around isn't helpful, being pregnant is about the worst thing of all. Whatever that hormone is called that makes all your bones lovely and flexible and able to move in weird ways during birth is obviously very effective, but not helpful to keeping my back in line. Every pregnancy I've had has been accompanied by an episode at some point. Which usually leaves me on crutches whilst heavily pregnant and looking rather tragic.

So far in this pregnancy I've been ok. But I know my back well and there are the first signs that it is struggling to hold it all together. So I've been looking at ways in which I can stave off the onset of an episode. Normally I manage my back with pilates type exercises, but that went a bit by the wayside when we went to Bosnia. Interestingly, I didn't have any episodes in Bosnia, draw what conclusions you want from that fact.

Previously I've gone to physiotherapists, with mixed results. Fundamentally I buy into the physio concept. I need to strengthen the muscles around my back to help support it. But the physio-terrorists were not successful in helping me when pregnant with Luke. By the way, if you ever want to get some attention in an NHS physio clinic, I strongly advise passing out when a physio pushes you to do something that you know isn't a good idea. They pay a lot of attention to you after that.

So with this pregnancy I'm looking round for alternative therapies. But I've concerns. I tried a chiropractor a few years ago, which directly led to the worst back pain I've ever had. I don't know if it was the discipline that contributed to the onset of that particular episode, or I was just unlucky in getting a bad practitioner. This time round I've been recommended an osteotherapist, but I have to admit to being scared. If I stick with what I know, I know what will happen and I know that it is likely to be painful but just about manageable. I worry that, like my previous foray with the chiropractor, I may make it worse for myself by going to this osteo. But on the other hand, he might make it better. He specialises in pregnancy. He has been highly recommended.

So what I'm interested in is what experiences with the back quacks have you all had? Were they positive? Or during this pregnancy should I just be sticking to my exercises and hoping for the best?

20 comments:

  1. A friend of mine had a terrible riding accident several years ago and has lived with excruciating back pain ever since. She recently had her horse returned to her (which had been out on loan since her accident) and started to see a chiropractor to get fixed so she could ride him again. The pain got worse before it got better but she reckons her back is now very nearly back to normal x

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  2. Both OH & I have poorly backs. We go to an excellent chiropractor practice. OH has been given exercises to do which have strengthened his back over the years. Mine isn't that far along yet & I'm still going for monthly treatment. I think it is all about the practitioner. Not much help unless you live near Bristol!!x

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  3. My husband has a bad back from a car accident 20 years ago. He's never found anyone who could sort it for him. The main advice has been to do a set of recommended gentle exercises regularly. Before children I did a lot of yoga (not after, wonder why?!) and I think regular yoga or pilates over the long term benefits a problem area. I'm not sure a quick fix solution or person exists. You have my sympathy, the only time I've had back pain is while pregnant. To be pregnant and already have a problem back must be agony, poor you. I hope you find something which helps.

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  4. Just found you here - I was wondering where you'd gone too. Congrats on being pregnant again, how exciting!
    I don't have a bad back like you but it can be quite weak and I have put it out in the past. When I was pregnant I did an ante-natal pilates class which I found brilliant for strengthening those core muscles and stretching out my lower back, I also bought a gym ball for the house and I found it great.
    Hopefully it eases for you, being pregnant is enough to deal with without back pain x

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  5. Again, I have no experiance of a bad back, but I did take maxi and mini to see an oestepath after they were born and she worked onders. Look for referals to a specific practitioner

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  6. I have a bad back which is a legacy of carrying my second daughter very low and putting a strain on my back. It's never been the same since and she's now 10. Exercise is the key, although I only ever think of that when my back 'goes'. I know what to avoid though, lots of bending (gardening) or carrying (any sort of heavy object) will set it off. It's a bugger to live with.

    I hope this back quack can help you, good luck.

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  7. Only problem I ever had with all pregnancies was recurring lower back pain from old rowing injury (you know what I am talking about, the type that happens just as you are lifting the boat out of the water, bending knees and doing everything right, and it 'goes'...)
    Was recommended a brilliant osteopath when this first occurred - about 4 weeks before Women's Henley - and he sorted me out in no time, and then went back to him whilst pregnant and after as well when it played up.
    This guy always told me I should be doing Pilates. In true style I ignored his advice, but then started attending Pilates classes with a reformer - hence far more dynamic and more my style - 18 months and have never looked back. Now I wonder why he didn't insist more since I was so stubborn!

    Can give you names and references if you would like. Osteo is in Richmond.

    LCM x

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  8. Robert had serious back/neck problems last summer (made worse by the heat and then by shingles!!!) - I am certain the chiropractor made it all worse - he spent 3 months in terrible pain - in the end it was the physio who put it right - and like you, he can go for months with no trouble and then wham - it's back again - but the phsyio sorts it out every time - good luck with your back!!!!!! Kathryn (www.ourprivateblog.wordpress.com)

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  9. I don't have a lot of problems with my back, certainly nothing as serious as a slipped disc. I find pregnancy hard on my lower back though and also suffer from tension headaches - both seem to get better with gentle yoga (pregnancy yoga). I guess it's the same idea as pilates (which I find the hardest exercise ever so don't like it) - strengthen the core muscles to have better posture.

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  10. In my experience it all depends on WHO you go to. I've been to people who made me worse and people who've made me practically HEALED thank you Jesus. I'd say listen to the references.

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  11. Osteo - yes, yes, yes.

    I went to see a cranio-sacral therapist - it's a specialism within osteo. He was known locally as Mr Magic-Fingers. He sorted my back out. He took one look at my oldest son and diagnosed the fact that his headaches were due to constipation, and that if his diet improved, so would the headaches (they did). I knew 2 colicy babies who he helped, literally in one treatment.

    I like the way osteos look at the whole body, not just the bit they're treating. Something that causes the pain might not be the problem. It might be that something elsewhere in the body is an underlying problem, that is putting other things out of kilter.

    So I would definitely recommend an osteopath, but I would ask if they do cranio-sacral therapy. It's really gentle, really non-invasive. So at worst, it's not going to do any damage or make you pass out (yikes, did you really?) But when they do it, it's weird because you feel small releases in tension over and over. I guess it all adds up to quite a big effect.

    That's my experience, for what it's worth.

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  12. I have shoulder problems for years as a result of my asthma and recently too much time spent on my iphone. I use an osteopath and find it to be completely brilliant. I first went years ago after a masseuse recommended it, and it was the first time my shoulder had been pain free for about a year. He used cranial osteopathy which is a bit new agey, and I've no idea how it works, but it does (this is coming from someone who scorns star signs and other such nonsense). I've since had it in all three pregnancies and I've had the babies done too. Would really recommend it.

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  13. Sympathies. My sister also had sciatica while pregnant, she was in agony.

    I never suffered from a bad back until just recently, when I keep getting twinges that last several weeks before clearing up. I think it is probably from carrying the boys. If it doesn't clear up I may have to go the osteo route too.

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  14. No advice on the back but huge congratulations on your pregnancy, did I miss an announcement? *goes off and frantically searches all your posts*

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  15. I used to go to a chiropractor and he beat the living daylights out of my back. I hated it.

    I now go to a fabulous osteopath, she works magic on my back (and my husbands which is very wonky indeed!) she also helps me with my sinus infections. I would definitely go and see one, especially if they are recommended by someone you trust.

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  16. I think I missed the pregnancy post somehow! Congratulations :)
    As the others say an osteopath should be able to help. I personally swear by reflexology, it helped me conceive, helped me calm down and has helped with lots of aches and pains...

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  17. I have a bad back too and just discovered pilates to help strengthen it. I usually have good luck with chiropractors. I had never even considered osteo, but after reading some of these comments I might. Am having some probs right now -- but might be stress related to cybermummy (only 38 more days!)

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  18. Thanks everyone for your comments. It is encouraging to see that the vast majority have had good experiences with osteos. Just given me a little bit of encouragement to get in touch with the osteo and see what happens. Mainly I just don't want it getting any worse! Watch this space...

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  19. Give the osteo a go - I found mine very good at treating me gently understanding that the relaxin could make things worse if she was brutal (ok its not fixed yet but it isn't painful the whole time)

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  20. No advice from me, but I do feel for you. Back pain is the worst!

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